Sunday, July 29, 2012

B'midbar- Leading from Within: An Open Door Policy



Ach et hamatei Levi lo tifkod v’et rosham lo tisa b’toch B’nei Yisrael.
However, the tribe of Levi- do not number, and do not count them among the Children of Israel.

The tribe of Levi, and from within Levi the Kohanim, are excluded from the general census of the Israelites. There are many reasons for this: the Levi’im do not go to war.  Their duties are to protect and care for the Mikdash. They are not rewarded with land in Israel, but are given cities in which to live and supported through the tithes and sacrifices offered by the Israelites.
The Levi’im are set apart as the protectors and caretakers of the Israelites’ spirituality. They are in no way the only spiritual leaders. In parashat B’ha’alo’techa seventy elders go with Moshe into the Ohel Moed where Moshe places the spirit of God upon them, but it is not limited to the. Remaining outside the tent are Eldad and Medad. When Ruach Ehlohim, God’s spirit, descends, they too are touched by God’s imminence, a fact witnessed by the People. Still the Levi’im are set apart. They live in a spiritual time and place coexisting with God and the Israelites and yet separate from both. 
Over time this model of leadership, separate even while within, began to fade.  It is hard to always live separate, neither with God nor the community. With the development of rabbinic leadership a new model emerged. Students lived with their rav. They shared meals and holidays, learning and jokes. They married and became part of the family. As the Diaspora spread far-flung communities were in need of constant answers, and a professional rabbinate developed.  No longer were the rabbis also the community’s farmers and doctors, but still the rabbis lived as an intimate part of the community.
However, over time Jews were influenced by the cultures in which they lived, for better and for worse. The model of rabbi began to imitate the priest or minister, living separate, uncounted in the general census, in the archetype of the Levi’im. Rabbis spoke from on high. They held their congregants, and were held by congregants, at arm’s length.
The past few decades have seen a return to the original rabbinic model. Influenced by the Jewish camping movement, youth groups, and the chavurah movement, rabbis began to descend the bima, both physically and intellectually. The doors to the rabbis’ homes were opened, meals were shared, holidays, s’machot, and difficulties. Instead of being divided between congregants and clergy, synagogues created communities. It is a model of warmth and belonging, and one we hope to share with Pride for many years to come. Our door is always open.

Behar-Behukotai: Self Care in the Torah



…V’chai achikha imakh.
…And your brother shall live with you.

A man once came to Shammai and said, “Teach me the Torah while I stand on one foot, and I will convert.” Shammai chased him away. The same man then went to Hillel and said, “Teach me the Torah while I stand on one foot, and I will convert.” Hillel responded, “That which is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour.  The rest is commentary.  Now, go and learn.”
Hillel made a good point.  His “golden rule” has been adapted by religions around the world. But I would argue that this, v’chai achikha imakh, and your brother shall live with you, is a better explanation of Torah.
Beginning with lo tov heyot haAdam l’vado, it is not good for Adam to be alone, in Breishit, the Torah teaches us both to live in community and how we should do that.
Chai achikha imakh, your brother shall live with you. This idea goes beyond humanity.  Even the earth is wrapped up within it.  From the shmittah year’s release of slaves and loans to homes and land, everything we do, everything we are gets its meaning from this phrase, from how we live with others.
This is not just a statement about community.  It is a statement about each of us. Chai achikha imakh. Imakh, with you, it is not only our place to care for others, but for ourselves.  If we do not first do this, we will be unable to care for others and unable to care for the community and the world. 
Hillel summed this up in another of his famous statements. Im ain ani li mi li? If I am not for myself who will be for me? Ukhshe’ani l’atzmi mah ani? When I am only for myself what am I? V’im lo akhshav eimatai? And if not now, when?  This balance is the meaning of living together with our brothers.

Parashat Emor- One Law for All



Vayomer Hashem el Moshe, “Emor…”
And Hashem spoke to Moshe, “Speak…”

While it is not until the end of the book of Vayikra that we have a parasha called Emor, meaning Speak, it is a theme throughout the Torah.  This text is not a secret code for the Kohanim, our priests, or even only for the Israelites.  It is a spoken text passed on from generation to generation among all of Israel and beyond to the world.  As a people we have referred to ourselves as the Chosen People, meaning chosen to receive God’s word in order to share it with the world.  Torah and God’s law was never seen as the Israelites sole possession.

Mishpat echad yi’h’yeh lachem kager kaezrach yi’h’yeh ki Ani Hashem Ehloheichem.
You will have one law for the stranger and for the home-born for I am Hashem your God.

With words like these the Torah becomes a unique text for a unique people. Until this point law depended upon status, whether it be gender, social standing, or citizenry. Even after the receiving of the Torah, law throughout the world did not change much.  Until recently, and even now in some areas of the world, there are different codes for men and women. Citizens, whether of the land or the religion, fall under different rules, and social standing, based on title or land ownership, allows individuals to manipulate the rule of law for one’s own purpose. 

The Torah is for all people, one law for the Israelite and the stranger.  When we can respect each other, seeing each of us as equals under the law even through the lens of our differences, we can seek peace for us and for the world.

Friday, July 27, 2012

I Love Lucy

As a kid I was a big fan of I Love Lucy.  Anyone who is a fan of I Love Lucy knows that if something can go wrong for Lucy it will, and it will do it in the most humorous way possible.

Fast forward to my future-  I have managed to take that idea to heart, and institute it in my life.  Just some of the ridiculous things I have done...


  • As a teen- while walking backwards I have fallen over a hydrant.
  • Again, walking backwards, I suddenly turned to walk into a sign.
  • At Ramah Poconos I was the Rosh Hanutiyah (I ran the canteen).  At the end of the summer I was going in to clean up on one of the last days.  The door got stuck.  I yanked.  I yanked again.  I yanked a few more times until, suddenly, the door swung open, and hit me in the head.  I was knocked on my tush.  I may even have been knocked out for a moment or two.  I don't know.  I do know that I gave myself a concussion.
  • On a trip to Chicago for a family bat mitzvah, I was walking in the zoo, and I fell.  There was seemingly no reason, and I wonderfully wiped out in front of a crowd.  I scraped my knees and arms, and mostly my pride.
  • There was the wonderful story with the iron, sparks, and a black eye while Sean was in Japan.
  • Tuesday I was at kick-boxing.  Suddenly, I missed the bob (the man shaped pad we hit- sorry Bob; I didn't name it.).  My punch landed smack on my nose.  I saw stars.  It was a good hit.
Sean asked that I point out that when I did all these he either did not know me, or was out of town.  This is true.  Trust me that many silly things happen while Sean is home, but not so spectacularly.  I have been on crutches over ten times.  Amazingly, I actually have very good balance.  Because of that good balance, I am very careless.  Add that to a chronic knee problem that doesn't like it when I fall down, and you get disaster.

Lucy brought many hours of laughter into the lives of many people with her hijinks.  I hope I bring just a little into yours.  I certainly laugh about it.

Shabbat shalom.

On the Subject of Reading- Biff & Perspective

While I'm on the subject of reading...

I just finished the funniest book- Lamb: the Gospel According to Biff, Christ's Childhood Pal, by Christopher Moore.  This book was one of those that made me actually laugh out loud, not figuratively, but a full-on burst of laughter, even when I was reading on the subway or in the doctor's office.

Here's the premise-
     For a significant anniversary (the book was published in 2002, so maybe it was the millennium) Biff is resurrected by anger Raziel to write a gospel.  The gospel focuses most of its efforts on the missing years of Jesus' (or Joshua's, as he is called here) life.

The book is not meant to be a sacrilege or poke fun at religion.  Mr. Moore takes his writing seriously, and has done his research.  He is portraying Jesus/Joshua as a real person, albeit with special powers and knowledge.  He has curiosity, fears, desires, love, questions, and misgivings.

The boys first meet when they are six years old.  Jesus/Joshua is resurrecting a lizard his younger sibling keeps killing (it's not on purpose, but through rough play).  Imagine a six year old boy left to care for his younger brother.  Rather than trying to take the lizard away, and to explain to the younger child that he can't have what he wants, Jesus/Joshua has resigned himself to simply bring the thing back to life.  He is the ever-suffering big brother put in charge of his younger siblings.  In a world where people were adults by age 12 or 13, we see them grow up as adults, but with the quirks and interests of the teens they are.

It helps to have some understanding of religion- Judaism, Christianity, Buddhism, and Hindi, but you don't need much.  Added knowledge of the history of Israel at the Temple times can enhance the experience, but, again, it's not necessary.

What the book also does is give an insight into Jesus/Joshua as a real person.  In teaching I have often spoke of the DreamWorks movies Prince of Egypt and Joseph: King of Dreams.  They are wonderful teaching tools because they portray these great figures as real people.  Moshe loves and worships (as a younger sibling to an older) the man who would one day become Pharaoh.  Joseph's brothers are thrilled that Rachel is finally having a child, and are equally excited that they are to have a new brother, until their father tunes them out.  These historic figures are not two dimensional.  They had lives and emotions.  Many do not want to picture Jesus as interested in sex, but he was once a 18 year old boy.  Whether you believe he was celibate all his life or not, he went through adolescence and puberty, and wondered.

From Biff, his childhood friend, you get an insight into what it was to be around Jesus/Joshua.  I loved how the miracles become normal.  Biff has seen it all.  It's just a talent his friend has, and sometimes he appreciates it a little less than most true believers would like to think about.

Sean and I had a discussion last night about Moshe and the first set of tablets.  The pasuk says that Moshe flung (or sent) them from his hands.  The Mishnah uses the passive verb "they became broken." Discussions that follow give Moshe all sorts of outs, from the most far-fetched (aka miraculous),
            that when Moshe looked upon the celebrations surrounding the golden calf, the letters on the  
            tablets flew off to Heaven.  With the divine letters gone, the tablets took on their real weight, and  
            Moshe was unable to hold them.
to the simplest,
             in shock, they slipped from his hands.

I believe the Rabbis had great trouble seeing Moshe as a real person.  He was surrounded by the divine light of God (from which my daughter gets her name).  Isn't someone chosen by God somehow more holy than we?  The same problem happens with David.  Any reader of the Tanakh can tell you that David (and Solomon after him) did a lot of not so okay things, but God loves him.  Many commentators try to make him better than he was.

But they, and Jesus/Joshua too, were human with all our gifts and all our faults.  Just like them, we too have the divine in us, if we would just reach inside.

Read the book.  No matter your religion or lack thereof it will give you two gifts- laughter and perspective.