Monday, August 19, 2013

Parashat Re'eih- Making the Lesson Stick


Ki im-el-hamakom asher-yivchar A’donai Eloheikhem mikol-shivteikhem lasoom et-shmo sham l’shikhno tid’r’shu uvata shamah…. Va’a’khaltem sham lifnei A’donai Eloheikhem u’s’machtem b’khol mislach yedkhem atem uvateikhem asher beirakh’kha A’donai Elohekha. Lo ta’asoon k’khol aser anachnu osim po hayom ish kol hayasher b’einav…. Va’a’vartem et-haYardein vishavtem ba’aretz asher-A’donai Eloheikhem manchil etchem…. Ki im-lifnei A’donai Elohekha tokhlenu bamakom asher yivchar A’donai Elohekha bo: atah uvinkha uvitekha v’av’d’kha va’amatekha v’haleivi asher bish’arekha…
Therefore to the place that A’donai your God will choose from all the tribes to put His name there, you will seek his dwelling and come there…. And you will eat there before A’donai your God, and you will rejoice in all that you put your hand to: you and your households where A’donai your God has blessed you. Do not do as we have done here today, every man [doing] what he chooses in his own eyes…. When you cross over the Jordan and settle in the land that A’donai your God chose for you…. Thus before A’donai your God you will eat in the place that A’donai your God will choose: you and your son and your daughter and your servant and your maid and the Levi that is within your gates… (D’varim 12:5,7-8, 10, 18)
From the time the Israelites leave Egypt they go through many transitions. As a post-slavery people they are learning to be individuals. They must learn to think on their own, as well as for and about themselves. A slave cannot care for him/herself. He must be at available for his master, and must therefore subjugate his own needs, desires and wants. The generation born in the desert is a generation that no longer needed to do this. Rather, they needed to focus on the opposite. The desert generation is a selfish one. Out of the needs surrounding survival in a wilderness, each individual must be self-focused. Manna serves for an entire meal. It is individually gathered, by all who are able, each person for him/herself. Additionally, as they would have in Egypt and before, each family maintained its own altar, worshipped in its own way, and had only a personal relationship with God disconnected from the rest of the community.
Now the Israelites stand on the verge of another transition. They are about to cross the Jordan and enter Israel. To flourish as a people in a new land, no longer nomadic, they will have to grow together. Just as children are self-centered, teens in their transition to adulthood even more so, in the wilderness the Israelites are in their adolescence. It is time to grow into a mature people. They must move beyond this self-centeredness. No longer are they to remain in their own dwellings, but rather to join with the community. Their relationship to God also needs to move beyond the individual. They have to learn to care about the community and to provide for others.
This is not a lesson that always sticks. Over and over the Israelites must learn to do this. They’re human. Humans are, by our very nature, self-centered. We want what we want, and we sometimes forget about others. Especially in the weeks between Tisha B’Av and Elul, the period leading up to the High Holy Days, it’s appropriate that we are reminded to care about others, not just the others who are close to us, our children, our family, but those outside our immediate circle. We need to care for those over whom we have control, in biblical terms- the servant and the maid, but in modern terms- employees, store keepers, service workers (police, fire fighters, TTC workers). We also need to maintain our communal connections. As the Israelites spread throughout the land, the importance of coming together for worship and meals and s’machot becomes even more important. With our busy lives the synagogue can be our center, the place where God chose for us to maintain our ties to each other and to God.

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